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I had a weird experience yesterday! I hung out with some friends for a while, and suddenly they all seemed annoyed at me. Guess why?
In their own words: I way annoyingly positive and loved too much for my own good. I had to learn how to hate people, or at least, not like everyone for something.
I must admit, I've never thought about it that way. Should one not like someone simply because they don't like you? Wondering...
I've always done my best to be positive and love all that I can, but maybe that's not the right thing? I'm not even sure I'd be able to stop!
Maybe people are just different, and it's a part of my personality to be like this. I see, it can maybe be a bit annoying to be happy most of the time, for others in particular. They might think I'm trying to act like H. H. Dalai Lama, but come on. Can't a person just love it all?
Have a lovely day, all of you!
In their own words: I way annoyingly positive and loved too much for my own good. I had to learn how to hate people, or at least, not like everyone for something.
I must admit, I've never thought about it that way. Should one not like someone simply because they don't like you? Wondering...
I've always done my best to be positive and love all that I can, but maybe that's not the right thing? I'm not even sure I'd be able to stop!
Maybe people are just different, and it's a part of my personality to be like this. I see, it can maybe be a bit annoying to be happy most of the time, for others in particular. They might think I'm trying to act like H. H. Dalai Lama, but come on. Can't a person just love it all? Have a lovely day, all of you!
On the Zen of DeviantART and Giving Good Critisism
- We all have to live together, so we might as well live together happily.
Dalai Lama
DeviantART is a simple, beautiful idea. A community for sharing your art, your passion, with others.
Therefore, we must make sure everyone feel wanted and appreciated in the community. Mean, stupid comments at otherwise beautiful artpieces are common. For a young aspiring artist, having someone put you down while you're still struggling to find your place in the art, can be a traumatic experience. I say, there is NO artist out there, who deserves just that. Some people think that putting others down will make your art seem better. It won't.
Maybe you'll
Adventure!
So, I've been a deviant for 6 months now. And I stil haven't figured anything out yet. I'm in here for constructive critisism and feedback, and I'm not stopping before I achieve it! So I'm gonna do my best to figure out how to get it.
Yesterday, I got a comment! Yay! Seriously, I think I did a little happy dance. I've been commenting on stuff I like like crazy, faving lovely stuff and joining groups, and finally results! Yes, yes, I know it's nearly nothing, but let me have my moment here please :D
Comments are quite lovely indeed
Well.
Only now I discovered a bunch of people faving my stuff. First I want to say; Thank you, like a gazillion time!! I love you! Live a lovely life from now on, I wish you love, and care, and wealth and love .. and .. um .. what was I saying again?
Oh, right. I'm not sure if I have the time to actually thank everyone of you. Gosh, I sound like someone famous now. That's not the point .. What I'm trying to say is: I'll try my best to get to thank you. And for now, I will do anything it takes to answer a comment. Gosh, I'd love a comment. Please comment my stuff. I beg you. No? Well.
Actually, I do appreciate everything you do to me in her
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I was actually going through the exact same thing. My friends pretty much banned me for being myself (back then, a naturally happy person). At first I tried to please them and answer their demands, but as I progressed I saw that I should do what's right for me, not what's right for them. Now I have plenty of friends, and I'm still friends with them, only today they accept me for who I am, and when it happens and they don't, I don't give a fudge. 
You're on the right track. 
Always be yourself and become who YOU want to become.
Always be yourself and become who YOU want to become.